Secretive about dating
My logic: The less people that know about this relationship, the less people I’ll have to deal with looking at me and wondering what went wrong if things happen to go awry.
Anything to not have to deal with the shame of a highly visible breakup again.
However the research found that women were more likely to be impressed with a good listener who was sympathetic to their problems.
But they switched off if their prospective partner started to talk about work and if they appeared socially awkward.
Never again would I want to be the subject of those sympathetic gazes or questioning stares.
So I swore off things like social media when it came to my relationships and only informed a tiny circle of friends and family members that I was even seeing anyone.
Visually, Tinder Select has its own style with navy blue color accents replacing the pinkish orange interface that us common folk see.
To contrast, I couldn’t really have this discussion without mentioning Ashanti and Nelly and their attempt to carry on a secret relationship.Though his words seemed a bit extreme, they resonated with me and I could tell that they came from a hurting place. No one shows up to a race hoping to lose and no one begins a meaningful relationship hoping to break up.